Life With All Boys

Oh Yes,

2009-02-03T09:06:00.008-06:00

He really does eat popcorn for breakfast. And I will not apologize for it either.

And check out this cute chair Monte and his friend made for Carter out of duplo legos. I should have posted a picture of just the chair. It was adorable and actually held all of Carter's weight. All 34lbs. of him. For about 2 minutes anyway, and then he tore it all apart.

We are supposed to get up to a foot of snow between now and tomorrow morning. I was hoping they were wrong, but it's just beginning now. I have plans to help a friend that is moving do some packing tonight. Damn snow. And if we have another snow day my kids are going to end up having to make up 4 days of school this summer. At this rate it will be the middle of June before they get out.

One more thing. If you see me today and your wondering why I'm hobbling around and walking funny, it's because I did an exercise dvd yesterday and I'm feeling the effects (affects?) of it now. Ouch!

The Kind Of Mom I Am

2009-01-07T09:12:00.003-06:00

I'm the kind of mom that at 10pm the night before her son's 8th birthday party , goes to the store to get buttermilk and cream cheese because he just reminded her that MONTHS ago he said he wanted banana cake with cream cheese frosting for his next birthday.

I'm the kind of mom that lets her children eat those banana cupcakes for breakfast the next morning because if other people let their kids eat doughnuts, how is cake any different? At least these had banana in them, right?

I'm the kind of mom that lets her toddler eat popcorn for breakfast because she is tired and just doesn't want a fight. I'm choosing to pick my battles people.

I'm the kind of mom that likes the quiet time during the day with her toddler but still looks forward to the loud, crazy, and busy nights when her older children are home.

I'm the kind of mom that asks for every Sunday afternoon off work because I can't stand to miss just one basketball game that my child is playing.

I'm the kind of mom that needs to take more pictures of her older children so they know when they grow up that they lived here too, and more video of her younger child so he doesn't wonder why all the tapes are of his older brothers.

I'm the kind of mom that is going to put off her shopping this morning one more day so her 2 year old can walk around outside in the inch of snow we got last night. Well, I'm telling myself that's the reason anyway.

Merry Christmas To All....

2008-12-24T22:21:00.002-06:00

Apple-licious

2008-10-20T08:17:00.003-05:00

Randomness

2008-09-24T10:45:00.000-05:00

1. I am babysitting for a friend a few mornings a week. She had a baby the end of June and had to go back to work part time. I wasn't sure that I even wanted to babysit. I've been babysitting on and off since Monte was little and this time around I just wanted to be home and enjoy Carter. But since it's just in the morning and not everyday I decided to try it. I wasn't sure how Carter would do either but he has done fabulous. There has been no jealousy issues at all and the only "problem" we have had is the amount of kisses he wants to give her.

2. I am still just working one night a week which is working out just fine thanks to the babysitting money, but between work, soccer, and basketball starting next week we have no nights free. This doesn't make me happy.

3. While driving past the library last week I realized Carter is old enough for toddler time. Yesterday was his first "class". He seemed to enjoy it.

4. Our washing machine took it's last breathe Sunday afternoon. There is nothing like opening up the washer to take out your clean clothes only to discover they are soaking wet and have NOT been washed. Our 10 year old washer was not worth the cost of a new motor so last night we went shopping for a new one. The one I wanted wouldn't be in for 2 weeks, and I thought about waiting, and hubby said he didn't care, of course since a laundry mat wasn't in his future, but the thought of a laundry mat for the next 2 weeks was enough for me to go with my second choice. Which will be delivered tomorrow.

5. The mosquitoes are TERRIBLE right now. I have like a billion from soccer practice Monday and they are driving me crazy. That will teach me to leave my bug spray at home.

6. A couple weeks ago I woke in the middle of the night and the first thought in my head was It's been 4 days since Carter has nursed! I guess we are weaning. He is weaning! I have some serious mixed emotions about it. I feel like he is ready, he is old enough, but he's my baby.

Tear Stained

2008-08-20T22:40:00.000-05:00

Today was a bad day. The kind of day that you finally give in and admit that you aren't as tough as you want others to believe you are. The kind of day you finally break. You spend the day in tears. Because it's all you know to do. I have worries. I have fears. I am just like everyone else.

And then comes my favorite time of the day. At night when I get to put Carter to bed. I can snuggle up with him in the rocking chair and breathe in his baby smell, and all my insecurities are washed away for the moment. Tonight I needed him more then he needed me. Yet he was so clingy, twirling his fingers through my hair, but didn't ask to nurse. He is weaning, and I know he is ready as he asks less and less, but tonight he just wanted to climb on my lap with his latest animal friend and rock. And I held him longer then I had to, long after he was sound asleep. After my arm had gone numb. After I wiped the final tear from my eye.

Mini Golf

2008-08-18T14:27:00.000-05:00

There are some places Carter would not go if he didn't have older brothers. He wouldn't spend 3 months at the baseball field, he wouldn't have to sit in a stuffy gym for basketball games, or have to be quiet on back to school night. And I don't think I would have taken him to play miniature golf.
This kid has a thing for balls. Any ball, or anything that looks like a ball, is a ball to him and he loves to throw it. So my worries for mini golf was 5 balls rolling on green carpet as Carter ran like mad to pick them all up and throw them into the water. Splash!

But he was content to let his brothers go first and then with a little help from daddy hit his ball down to the hole. Then he would run and pick up his ball. He was done with that hole. After a couple times we stopped trying to keep him off the green and me and my husband golfed with a moving obstacle on the course. It was actually quite fun!

I Love Vacation

2008-08-14T10:36:00.016-05:00

Vacation, stay-cation, whatever you want to call it. I've heard that term a lot this summer with gas prices so high and just everything in general. But my husband has been taking a week off work every summer for years and we stay home and do something around where we live every day. Not that we sit around the house the rest of the summer and go nowhere, but this gives our kids the feeling of a vacation without us as the parents getting stuck with a week long hotel bill. But just like every other vacation I've done no house work, and I have cooked nothing since Friday. Unless making toast counts.

Until today. Dad and Grandpa (my in-laws are also on vacation this week) took the older boys to the shooting range and me and Carter are relaxing at home. And by relaxing I mean he's watching Cars, and I'm doing laundry. Well, Hunter is wearing his last pair of clean shorts today. I guess I have to do something. A trip to the grocery store is in my future as well I believe.

Saturday was my husband's company picnic where a good time was had by all. He won a grill, (too bad we bought a new one a couple months ago) Monte won a $15 jar of pennies by having the closes guess, and then won Hunter a football playing bingo. Me and Hunter won nothing. And Carter? He just wanted to ride the ponies over and over. He won't pet the neighbor's dogs, but he'll ride a pony? Go figure!

We spent Monday at the beach with my in-laws. Carter is not a fan of sand but gave it a try. For about a minute.

Then he decided he'd rather spend his day on the blanket. Shh! No one tell him he's still got sand all over him.

But not this much sand.

We've also been to the Zoo, and amusement park, I had my bunco night, and get another night out with friends tonight. Oh, and no vacation is complete without a trip to the doctor right? Monday evening Carter got bit by a mosquito and it really swelled. By Tuesday night after we got home from the Zoo his whole forehead was completely swollen and it seemed to be traveling down his face. Wednesday morning his eyes were swollen as well and his whole face was distorted. Freaked Me Out! I can not even try to explain how horrible he looked. And I couldn't even bring myself to take a picture. Not an image I care to see again. None of my children have ever had this kind of allergic reaction to a bug bite before. But after several doses of Benadryl, and just a couple days he's doing much better.

It doesn't seem too bad

2008-08-07T00:05:00.001-05:00

Cost of book fees for a 5th grader and a 2nd grader - $220

Cost of school supplies for a 5th grader and a 2nd grader - $55

Me and Carter having the house to ourselves for 7 hours a day - priceless

A Post? For Real?

2008-08-05T14:39:00.002-05:00

So whenever I don't blog for a month, or two, I always feel like I need to explain where I've been. Well, it's summer. I think that says it all. We've been swimming in our pool, going to the beach (with a 2 year old that hates sand, fun) and a few trips to the water park. Yes, I'm really raising a family of fish over here. We had a crazy but fun season of baseball, been to major league baseball games, bike rides, fishing and camping, and the occasional plane crashing into the living room!

I went shopping with just the older two boys last night. First time at the mall all summer, but they had money and both wanted new jerseys. So the mall it was. Little did I know there was a terrible storm headed our way. After standing by the doors for 15 minutes waiting for the rain to slow down, I decided to just make a run for it. After 30 minutes of gripping the steering wheel and with a headache from all the squinting I had to do from the lightning, I finally made it home safe and sound. Only to discover that the security tag was still on Hunter's jersey!

So back to the mall we went this morning after school registration (school already?) They gave me back $8 for my gas. Okay, whatever. I'll take it. But I of course got talked into lunch at the food court (I'm weak when I'm hungry) and a little trip into Abercrombie. Where Carter grabbed the top of his stroller where I had put my pop and the boys blue slushies. (I told you I'm a push over) Two blue slushies and one pepsi flying through the air in a store that I can barely afford anything in. Nice. Oh, and did I mention the kids working there are like one day older then 16! Attitude. But then again I'm assuming they don't have any experience with toddlers who don't want to sit still and like to grab at everything.

My Top 10

2008-06-24T00:01:00.002-05:00

I really am a lover of all things summer. Okay, maybe not the bugs, but Ashlee has asked for our 10 favorite things of summer.

1. Iced tea and lemonade.

2. Bike rides. We are blessed with a wonderful bike trail within biking distance from our house. I have a baby seat on mine for Carter and even he loves it. I'm seriously thinking of getting a granny seat though. Oh my aching booty.

3. Flowers and gardens.

4. Kicking the kids out of the house. Maybe that sounded a bit mean, but on a gorgeous summer day (like today) when all they want to do is sit on each other and bicker, I can yell, "go outside and play". Yes, you read that right. They kept sitting on each other and then wouldn't get up until the other one yelled loud enough. Or maybe that was me doing the yelling. Hard to tell.

5. Our pool.

6. Corn on the cob. I could care less that it's really more of a sugary carb then a healthy vegetable. Bring. It. On.

7. The 4th of July. It has to be one of my favorite holidays ever.

8. No school. I hate getting up every morning and rush rush rush. After 5 years I'm still not used to it. I doubt I ever will be.

9. Fruit. It just tastes so much better in the summer.

10. Flip flops. I'm now thinking that should have been at the top of my list. Monte asked the other day, "why do you have so many flip flops?" Because I can. I'm the mom.

Let's Eat Cake!

2008-06-20T15:52:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was Carter's birthday. I don't know if the fact that I am just now getting around to posting it makes me a bad mommy or a bad blogger. But I'm thinking blogger since I did try to make yesterday all about him. We went to the Zoo in the morning and packed a picnic lunch to take with. It was a gorgeous day out and had so much fun. Except for that ornery tiger that kept growling (roaring?) at everyone. No really, take some kitty Prozac or something. You scared my 2 year old half to death.

Just Play With Your Brother

2008-06-11T14:06:00.002-05:00

This morning Hunter was eating breakfast at the counter and I was in the pantry getting my crock pot down. Something I don't use as often as I should.

Hunter - What are you doing?

Me - Getting down my crock pot.

Hunter - Whats a crack pot?

Me - None of your business. I said crock pot.

I also declared today "No neighbor friend day". They are currently sulking in the pool while jumping off the deck, shooting each other with water guns, and having a grand ol time. I tell you, the torture of it all. I can just be the meanest mom ever. No really, just ask them.

Sum-Sum-Summertime

2008-06-09T15:02:00.007-05:00

Summer is finally here. The boys are out of school and the weather is finally warm. We went from winter to a hot and humid summer. At least that's how it feels. But I love it. Summer suits me well.

Yesterday we had my in-laws over to grill out and swim for my hubby's birthday. Except for a quick thunderstorm the day was perfect. Carter loved to float around like last year, and there was a lot of jumping going on too. I need to get some new pictures.

I don't think it was as much fun sitting on the deck though.

Randomness

2008-05-30T08:19:00.005-05:00

A while ago, okay 2 weeks to be exact, but who's keeping track, Jen tagged me with 10 random things about me.

1. Yesterday I let Carter eat pizza for breakfast. No this isn't normal for me, but I'd rather let him eat the pizza then endure the temper tantrum that always follows the word "no". Maybe I'm weak, but I like to pick my battles, and yesterday breakfast wasn't one of them.

2. I played volleyball and was a cheerleader in high school.

3. I still weigh the same as I did the day I came home from the hospital with Carter. Anyone know where I can buy some will power?

4. I am allergic to grass. I have spring and summer allergies and grass is the worst of it I think. Well maybe the stupid cotton that falls from cottonwood trees, but I can't even sit in grass or not only do I sneeze and my eyes start to itch, but I'll break out as well.

5. Carter is still nursing but I've cut him back to just a few times a day. This has gone much smoother then I expected. I don't know how much longer he'll nurse for, but I've nursed 3 babies for a combined total of 5 years. There is just a part of me that is done.

6. I love flowers. If I could, I would buy hundreds of dollars worth and plant them all over the place.

7. A couple weeks ago we bought a king size bed. We have needed a new bed for awhile now and so we traded our old queen for something bigger and better. It's been the highlight of the month for sure. Maybe the year!

8. My feet are always cold. Well, unless it's 90 degrees and I'm outside, but as soon as I go into an air conditioned house my feet get cold again.

9. I have a big mouth. Not size, loudness. It got me in a lot of trouble growing up.

10. I have 2 sisters, no brothers. One is older and one younger. Kinda funny that I had all boys.

He Made My Day

2008-05-09T14:59:00.007-05:00

Monte was a late talker. At 18 months he still wasn't saying anything, and even though I knew he should be talking, I didn't know enough to do anything about it. Of course everyone, including doctors, tell you that he is fine and that all kids do things at different times. At his 2 year check up when he still hadn't said anything, his doctor put me in contact with a speech therapist. We did speech therapy for a year, and by his 3rd birthday he was completely caught up.

Then I had Hunter. And holy moly is this how babies are supposed to talk? Several words by his first birthday? He was a little parrot at 18 months and by 2 was talking in complete sentences. It was like talking to a 4 year old. I loved just sitting with him on my lap and listening to him ramble on about nothing. About everything.

I say all this because by the time Carter's 1st birthday rolled around I was beginning to wonder. Is he like Monte? He's not even babbling the same way Hunter was. I even broke out the home movies to see Monte and Hunter at that age and I was very alarmed by how much he reminded me of Monte. Of course everyone told me I was paranoid, and looking for something that wasn't there. But I knew. I just knew.

When we went for Carter's 15 month check up he still wasn't saying anything so I told his doctor my concerns. He is ether more educated now, or maybe because I reminded him of Monte, he right away agreed that getting Carter tested was a good idea. Even if they said he was just fine, at least we had ruled it out, and we would know.

The therapist that came to our house said right away that yes, he would qualify. That it wasn't even so much that he didn't have any words yet, (Carter was 16 months at the time) as much as it was the fact that he didn't really even move his mouth correctly to form words. He didn't babble, he just kind of held his mouth open and made the same sound over and over.

Since the end of November we have had a speech therapist that comes to our house once a week. She is the sweetest thing and Carter just loves her. But he hasn't progressed by leaps and bounds like I had hoped. I guess I just thought that since he started speech earlier then his brother he would talk earlier too. But that just hasn't been the case.

We have made progress though. For one this little boy tries SO hard. And beginning sounds are coming along. He also makes a lot of animal sounds, which is absolutely adorable. He says hot, hat, bubble, uh-oh, and no. Or at least his version of these words. And he has about 30 signs that we all use and he knows well that help to communicate and lessen his frustration level.

Well, this morning I needed to run downstairs to grab something real quick. He was busy, so I didn't say anything first or he would want to come. As I was downstairs I could hear him walking around yelling "Da", which is what he says anytime he's looking for someone that has walked away. He wasn't upset, so I didn't yell back because I was on my way back upstairs anyway. But what I heard next brought me to tears. His "Da" had turned to "Mama". He was walking around saying "Mama"? "Mama"? He was calling me. Me! Mama!

I know he will talk. Even though at times I feel like he won't. But I am his mama and I can't help but worry. I can't even begin to tell you what his little mama did to me today. We all can't wait to hear our little ones say that first Mama. We look into their eyes and repeat it over and over when they are only 3 months old hoping that they will acknowledge us before their Daddy's. And it was well worth the almost 23 months I had to wait to hear it.

I'm So Blue

2008-05-09T10:45:00.002-05:00

Hunter is on a field trip right now to the Zoo, and I am home. This makes me very sad.

I Love Lazy Mornings

2008-05-07T08:14:00.005-05:00

Lets Recap

2008-05-05T08:54:00.003-05:00

It was a good weekend, with a couple not so good moments. Friday night, great! Monte had a baseball game. The sky was dark, it was threatening rain, but held off until 5 minutes after we left the field. And his team had their first win of the season. Woo Hoo!

Saturday morning we got up and hurried out of the house. To the mall with 3 boys I went to exchange this pair of shoes for Hunter. I ordered them online only to find out that they run REALLY big. But lets hurry because we have to get to your hair cuts at noon.

Get to their hair cuts only to find she is running 30 minutes behind. And Carter, my normally calm (at least when we go out) child, decides he just can't help himself. He has to touch EverySingleThing on the shelves. He has to pick leaves and flowers from the geraniums her last client brought in. And he just HAS to scream at the top of his lungs when mama tells him no and removes him from the situation. I must have said 20 times, I will NEVER make the boys a hair cut at Carter's nap time again. But really, sometimes you just take the appointment when it's available. By the time we left I was sweaty, and crabby, and hungry, and needed a time out myself. Or maybe a drink. After a nice nap (Carter, I'm not that lucky) things were much better.

Sunday morning as I'm cutting a watermelon, I cut my thumb. Maybe tried to cut it off is really more accurate. I have NEVER cut myself like this before. I've nicked myself, but this time, if I went to the ER I'm sure they give me stitches. I was home alone with Hunter and Carter and they were eating breakfast. I'm standing with my hand bleeding into the sink, knowing it's bad but not wanting to freak Hunter out either. He was so sweet. He even brought me the box of band-aids before I could even ask him, and he kept asking if I was okay.

Long story short, after several band-aids and many hours I was still bleeding. Partly I'm sure because I was still using it, but really, I was trying not to. Any idea how hard it is NOT to use your thumb? So my outdoorsy, (clumsy himself) clever husband butterfly taped it shut, wrapped it in a very large band-aid and now I'm good to go. Really, no bleeding at all. Who needs those doctors, and their needle and thread.

Wordless Wednesday - Fish!

2008-04-30T07:08:00.001-05:00

Things Are Good, Just Different

2008-04-28T07:26:00.000-05:00

After being a stay at home mom for 10 years it was hard to get a job. At the time I didn't see any other choice. Monte had just gotten braces and hubby's insurance wasn't going to pay a dime. We had that new payment a month plus with Christmas right around the corner and the ever increasing gas and food prices I thought it was what I needed to do for my family.

As hard as it was, I still believe I made the right decision. It did take Carter a little while to get used to me being gone a few nights a week though, and I've never gotten used to it. My heart is, and always will be here with my boys. I've even had one of them tell me, "why can't things just go back to how they used to be?" As a mom that hurts when all I want is for things to go back too.

It's really more about the time of day I work then it is about actually being gone. Nights and weekends suck. There really isn't any other way to put it. But I have to work when hubby is home. We have no one to help us, and are on our own, but I'd rather have one of us here at all times anyway.

I started out saying I wanted to work a couple days a week. But it was Christmas, so I worked more. And it was every Saturday night and almost every Sunday for the past 5 months. Retail. What else are you going to do. That's when the hours are and everyone works them.

But then my hubby's plant got really busy and he started working a lot of overtime. And lo and behold we didn't really need my paycheck anymore. That, and baseball started with him going one way with one child while I went the other way with the other child (plus baby) and with me working every weekend we had absolutely NO family time.

Something had to change. I'd love to walk into work and say I was quitting. But what happens when I need the money again and I have no job. Plus I'd like to still make enough to pay for Monte's braces every month. Just to be sure.

So I went down to one night a week. No Sundays. My boss at first didn't seem to like the idea. She wanted to know if it was permanent. I said no, and as much as I'd like it to be, it's probably not. At the end of the night I thanked her for the "whole schedule thing" and she said, "Your welcome. Family is important". And I told her yes, for me it's everything.

The funny thing is I've never considered myself a working mom. Not working four days a week and especially not now working one. I'm still a stay at home mom in my heart. And until we can't pay our bills and there is no other choice, that's how it's staying.

How Many Eggs Can I Hold?

2008-04-25T11:21:00.003-05:00

I just love this picture from Easter. And yes, there was a tiny bit of candy in each egg. He will be 2 in less then 2 months, this silly, funny, snuggly, sweet, ornery, crabby, stubborn, bossy (even though he can't really talk yet) little guy of mine. And I wouldn't change a single thing about him. Well, maybe the crabby part.....

Updating

2008-04-23T08:39:00.000-05:00

It's really about time I guess. I never intended on taking a 3 month break from blogging, but things got too crazy around here and one week turned into another, into another, and before I knew it, it had been months. Blogging had to take a back seat as my family had to come first. And always will. I don't know how often I will update this thing, but I'll continue to try. For now at least.

Where Do You Think He Learned This?

2008-01-16T08:27:00.000-06:00

Tag I'm It

2008-01-08T09:50:00.000-06:00

A couple days ago Steph tagged me. 7 things you don't know about me? Lets see.....

1. I have been growing out my hair for over a year now. It was really short for awhile, and I was ready for a change. It's almost there, except for the top layer and it's totally driving me nuts. Every time I move it falls in my eyes.

2. I've never enjoyed bath time with my kids. Every baby I've had I have that "aww, lets take a nice relaxing bath before bed" moment, and then they scream like someone is pulling their toe nails out one by one, and my "moment" is over.

3. I only like mushrooms on pizza. Love it actually. Any other way and they are all rubbery feeling in my mouth. Blech.

4. I never eat breakfast when I first wake up. It takes about 3-4 hours before I get hungry, so I rarely eat anything until lunch.

5. When I was a kid my mom never bought sugar cereal. When I spent the night at a friends house and they had sugar cereal I was always super excited. Yet when I ate it I found that I really didn't like it.

6. I got my first camera when I was 11 I think. It was a Le Click? It was flat, and took this disk like film. We went to Washington DC that summer on vacation and I just KNEW I was going to grow up to be a photographer.

7. I love to read and have every book I've ever read from the library alphabetized by author in a binder. Is that weird?

Just So You Know, I Am Still Alive

2008-01-05T14:48:00.000-06:00

Don't let this picture fool you. Carter hates the snow. He just happens to have this cheesy little smile he does everytime he sees a camera. This was taken after our first snow fall of the year. I was so excited to take him out and see what he thought. Not impressed. He wouldn't move, and his brother put some snow on his jacket and he freaked out. To this day when he looks outside and sees the snow he makes an ugly face (which is really kinda cute) and points and whines at it.

Two days after Christmas one of my children had the nerve to say to me "I'm bored". And I'm not embarrassed to tell you that I sounded like my mother when I said, "You have hundreds of dollars worth of Christmas presents and you can't find anything to do? I'll give you something to do". Well, they did find something for that afternoon, and then the snow fell. About a foot to be exact. Oh wonderful snow. Entertained two rowdy boys and their neighborhood friends for several days. And let me tell you the joy I felt watching those boys play. (from the warmth of my kitchen that is) The best was the football. Two on two, and apparently tackling was highly encouraged. Even if it meant a face full of snow. Silly boys. As a little girl if someone had shoved my face in the snow I would have gone in the house crying. But when they came in hours later, soaking wet through all their snow gear asking for hot chocolate, I knew they had a little bit of me in them after all.

And Today.....

2007-12-19T08:28:00.000-06:00

The baby, my baby, is 18 months old. This age to me has always been a milestone. An age that starts "the change". That baby to big boy change. And it came much too fast.

It's true that with each child you have they grow so much faster. I think we just get busier and time goes by that much faster. But since Carter was born I have always wanted time to just stop for a bit. I've wanted to just stay home with no other responsibilities except to be this child's mommy. Like it was when his brothers were babies.

I feel like I was truly able to soak up every bit of Monte and Hunter's babyhood. I can't really say that with Carter. I almost feel like I've missed something. Which is crazy since up until a month ago when I started working I had only even left him a handful of times. I guess it's just me going about life, when what I really want is to just stop. Stop and breathe in his sweet babyness.

But oh, how I love this age. He really is turning into such a little boy. The baby in him slipping away. He knows that cars go "vroom vroom" without ever being told, and that anything can be a gun. "Bow, bow" he says. (probably thanks to his brothers) I could watch his little legs run all day long, and sometime I make him do it just because it brings a smile to my face and a giggle to my lips every single time. And how he grunts everytime I pick him up. It's so funny.

Carter is the baby. Will probably always be the baby. And I am just going to enjoy every minute of it as best I can. No matter how fast life takes us.

To Blog Or Not To Blog?

2007-12-18T08:17:00.000-06:00

That really has been the question lately. In case you haven't noticed, hee hee, I haven't really been in the mood to blog. Too busy is really more like it. So I'm still thinking whether this is something I even want to do anymore.

But I had to at least let everyone know that today is Hunter's 7th birthday. We had cinnamon rolls and hershey kisses for breakfast, rice krispie treats for classmates, we're going out to dinner, plus I promised brownies. It's a good thing we don't have a birthday everyday. You'd have to roll us out the door.

Happy Birthday Hunter! And if you are wondering why Carter isn't in the picture, he took one look at Santa and the tears started flowing. Definitely not worth the drama.

Our Snowman Family

2007-12-01T08:12:00.000-06:00

by Hunter

Nothing Like Spoiling A Surprise

2007-11-28T08:13:00.000-06:00

Yesterday after school Monte and Hunter came home to the smell of fresh baked cupcakes. (hubby came home with his nose in the air too) Being the awesome mom that I am, everyone got to eat one. (so maybe I didn't want to wait any longer either)

For Monte's birthday we got him this lego set, (the boy LOVES legos) and books that he has been wanting. They are the Boys Against the Girls series by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor. He had the first 3 books and has been bugging me for the rest. There are 12 books in all, one for each month the girls are living by the boys. (I've read the first 2 and they are really cute) I kept putting him off because 9 books at $6 each was going to add up and I knew his birthday and Christmas were coming up. So I decided to buy them all (minus the last one that isn't yet out in paperback) and give him 3 for his birthday and the rest for Christmas.

Here's where I went wrong. He opens his books and is excited, but it wasn't quite the reaction I was expecting. You see, I accidentally wrapped up the LAST 3 books I bought in the series, not the NEXT 3 he needed. I can't believe I did that! I really didn't know what to do about it at first. I mean it's silly to make him wait another month when I have the correct books sitting in my closet. But if I give him the right ones he's going to know he's getting them all for Christmas.

So.....I swapped out the wrong ones for the right ones. I think my exact words were, pretend this never happened.

Double Digits

2007-11-27T08:19:00.000-06:00

Happy 10th Birthday Monte!

First Hair Cut

2007-11-17T01:20:00.000-06:00

Before

(click on the picture to see his wild and crazy hair close up)

After

He loves it so much he can't keep his fingers out of it.
I love it too!

Jammie Day

2007-11-16T08:25:00.001-06:00

The boys don't have school today. There's a good chance no one is getting out of their pajamas. And maybe I'll even get a bit caught up on my TiVo.

Wordless Wednesday - Bubbles

2007-11-14T07:37:00.000-06:00

Braces, cysts, and jobs.....OH MY!!

2007-11-12T13:18:00.000-06:00

I stood at the door this morning watching my boys get on the bus, knowing that I would not be home for the first time when they get off the bus this afternoon. That is not a good feeling. You see, I got a job. Not because I wanted one, but because I needed one. Atleast for now. Who knows what the future will bring.

Things have just really been piling up over here. Monte got his braces, (isn't he adorable) Hunter has a cyst in his mouth that is being removed tomorrow (neither are covered under our insurance) my car broke down Thursday night on my way home, my car and hubby's both need new tires, BAD, not to mention Christmas is almost here. You get the picture. So a part time (retail) job is what I got. We have sacrificed and done without many times, but this time there just really wasn't any other option. (believe me, this decision wasn't made over night)

I keep reminding myself that for 10 years I have been able to stay home. That is much longer than a lot of mommy's out there, but that doesn't really make it any easier. The baby is still so little, and still nursing. There will be days like this when I will only see the boys for an hour before school. And I feel bad that my hubby has to get up at 4:30am to go to work, and then come home and be mom and dad to 3 boys, ending his day when the baby goes to bed. I guess this is just another sacrifice we will make.

I've cried and cried. It's not so much working that upsets me, it's leaving the boys. I've never had to. I hardly ever even go anywhere. I even started to cry at my first interview. Yes, I'm a dork, but she was really understanding being a mom who stayed home with her kids for 10 years. I cried as I nursed the baby just a little bit ago, and then laid him down for his nap. And I'm sorta crying right now. I just hope I don't cry all over a customer tonight.

Yes, I'm Still Here

2007-11-10T16:57:00.000-06:00

Just been busy. So much going on that I hardly have a moment to think. I promise to try and fill you all in really soon.

Here are pictures from earlier today. Tuesday Hunter has to bring to school a baggie of leaves for a project. (not sure what yet) So a walkin' in the woods we went. The boys had SO much fun. Why didn't I think to do this on my own.

They even ventured off the trail a bit. But only a little since I had to stay with Carter.

But look at all the amazing leaves we got!

Oh! Sooooo Heavy

2007-10-30T15:55:00.000-05:00

Wordless Wednesday - Say....CHEEEEESE!

2007-10-24T00:53:00.000-05:00

It Starts So Soon

2007-10-23T00:42:00.000-05:00

Up until now Carter has had no interest in the TV. And aside from music catching his ear during a few commercials, I wasn't sure he had even notice there was such a thing as a TV.

Then this morning as we are putting mommy's things back in the kitchen cabinets for the 7th time today, what does he hear? The Wiggles on the View. I had no idea. I was talking to him and the next thing I know he drops the bowl he's supposed to be putting back, and runs like mad into the other room. What do I see when I follow him? 14 seconds in and he was hooked. We have DVR so I even played it back for him. Twice.

A Meme

2007-10-21T00:46:00.000-05:00

Rhonda at Mimi's Toes tagged me for the 5 interesting things meme.

1. I love chocolate. I mean LOVE it. CRAVE it. CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT IT. But I hate chocolate cake.

2. I took 2 years of Spanish in high school but can't remember any actual words. I can count to 15 (which I probably learned from Dora) and I know the alphabet up to Q.

3. I am not a creative person and my kids school projects scare me. Last year Hunter had to make a Turkey. That was the only directions. Well, that and the children had to have some part in the making of the turkey. Ours was a sad little bird. I couldn't believe what some of these kids came to school with. This year it's robots. I'm dreading that assignment.

4. I am allergic to cats. Have been my whole life. I like cats, think I would want one maybe, but it's been so long since I touched a kitty I'm not sure. It really kind of stinks because my sister and some of my friends have cats and if I go to their house I can't sit on anything but a kitchen chair and can't stay more then a little bit.

5. I never got wisdom teeth. And I never will. The first time I was told this was when I got my braces off. They took x-rays and said there was no sign of any. (they start showing up in x-rays when your like 9) Since then I've had other dentists comment that there are no wisdom teeth anywhere in my head. But I did have an extra baby tooth that they pulled before they put my braces on.

Now I tag Arianne and Steph. Spill it ladies.

Either He Needs Glasses, Or I Need To Sweep My Floor

2007-10-18T08:10:00.000-05:00

Last night after dinner as I was putting dishes in the dishwasher, I hear Hunter say...

There's a penny on the floor!

A penny? Why is there a penny on the floor up against the baseboards? Good thing Hunter saw it or Carter would have put it in his mouth. (I'll be glad when this stage is over)

Hunter - Never mind. It's only dust.

Maybe I should spend this rainy day cleaning my floors.

Braces. Already?

2007-10-16T08:24:00.000-05:00

Monte is seeing an orthodontist today. We've been told for a couple years now that he is going to need braces. He has a cross bite, his pallet is too small, and there is not enough room for anymore adult teeth once he looses the rest of his baby teeth. My husband has perfect teeth without ever having braces. They are straight, he has a perfect bite, I think has only had one cavity in his entire life, and he is the only person I know that has all his wisdom teeth and actually has the room for them. It's sickening, I know. But I had braces, so I have always anticipated my children might need braces. Lets face it. The majority of kids need braces. At this point I'm just hoping at least one of my boys will have gotten his Dad's teeth. These braces are going to put us in the poor house.

I got my reminder phone call for the appointment yesterday. It started something like this.

Me - Hello?

Receptionist - Is your mom there?

Me - I AM THE MOM!

I'm Missing Summer Already

2007-10-11T08:15:00.000-05:00

Last night I went to bed before 11pm. 10:56 to be exact, but that is EARLY for me. I don't know why, but ever since I got pregnant with Carter I can't sleep. Atleast not very good. I have to stay up until I am so tired I can't keep my eyes open anymore. I wake up several times a night, and Carter has been sleeping through the night for months.

I've even been getting up at 7:00 to get the boys ready for school without any trouble at all. Most of the time I'm up before my alarm. Well, bring on the cold weather and now I'm like a bear hibernating every morning. I was still up a few times last night, (Carter got up once too. It's either this cold he still has or those huge bumps on his gums where his molars are coming in) but when my alarm went off it took everything I had to get out of bed. Man, being the parent stinks sometimes.

But, Carter is sleeping still. It's a bit chilly in the house. Hmm, that bed is looking mighty inviting....

Wordless Wednesday - Me And My Boys

2007-10-10T01:53:00.000-05:00

A Night Of Firsts

2007-10-09T07:47:00.000-05:00

Saturday evening me and Monte went out alone for the first time since Carter was born. And to be honest I can't remember when the last time was. Was I 8 months pregnant? Was I only 3 months along? Who knows. The point is it was long overdue. We went out to dinner and had a wonderful time. Our waitress was wonderful, and the food was amazing. My date wasn't too bad himself! The hour we were there went by too fast and it was time to go get the kids. We even sat in the parking lot for a few minutes deciding if there was somewhere else we "needed" to go.

This was also only the 3rd time we had ever left Carter, and the first time it was somewhere besides our home. He didn't do too good. We stopped and picked up McDonalds for the boys, and dropped everyone off at my MIL's house. When I left, Carter was happily eating his chicken nuggets (McDonalds, another first) and didn't even notice I was gone. After he was done eating and got cleaned up, I guess he walked down the hall, realized I was gone, and started to cry. And cry, and cry, and cry. My MIL was unable to calm him down. My SIL was unable to calm him down. And my FIL knows better then to even try. Hunter tried playing with him. It wasn't until Lil Monte picked him up and sat on the couch that Carter finally started to calm down. He laid on brother for who knows how long, making them both so sweaty my MIL got a fan.

I was told next time they are coming back to my house. Fine by me. I was trying to make it easier on my MIL, and Monte and Hunter hadn't been to Nana's in awhile. But this is why I hate to leave Carter. I never worried about Monte and Hunter when I left them. I never felt bad leaving them. Carter just has a totally different personality then his brothers. But everyone survived. Hubby and I had a wonderful dinner. Lil Monte is a fantastic babysitter. And hopefully Carter learned I WILL COME BACK!

Not Now

2007-10-08T07:34:00.000-05:00

This morning when I woke up Hunter I heard the dreaded words.....

Mom, I don't feel good.

One sweep of his forehead and I know he has a fever. 101.0 to be exact. Poor baby. He has had a runny nose for over a week now, Saturday woke up in the middle of the night saying his ear hurt but then all day yesterday said it was fine. Now a fever this morning. He has too busy of a week to be sick. Grandparents Day, he's supposed to play the bells, and a field trip. That I got picked to go on! Not good timing. But then again, when is it ever.

Happy 10 Years

2007-10-03T07:42:00.000-05:00

It hardly seems possible, but today me and Monte have been married for 10 years. 10 years is a big deal to me. Such a milestone. 1 job change, 4 moves, and 3 amazing little boys later, here we are. And I can't imagine being anywhere else. The road has not always been sunshine and rainbows, but I'm proud of the way we have always worked together to get through anything.

I was 20, and he was 19 when we found out I was pregnant. We both freaked out a bit (naturally) but he never faltered. He was committed to being a dad, to being a husband. We eloped when I was 7 months along. Told no one. Not even our best friends. I've never once regretted this decision. I love that it was just us. Our own private ceremony. I might not have worn a white dress, he didn't wear a tux, we didn't stand up in front of 200 friends and family, but we meant our vows just the same.

This picture was taken 2 summers ago at his boss' wedding. When Carter was born his wife framed this 5x7 picture for me.

I Hope I Redeemed Myself

2007-10-02T08:40:00.001-05:00

Yesterday it was in the low 60's, cloudy, a bit drizzly, and I, Mother of the year, sent my kids to school in shorts! Now, in my defence, the know it all weather man said it was going to be 71. And the few times they have worn pants this year they complain they were hot. I guess the school is still pretty warm. (they do have air conditioning, but doubt they turn it on when it's in the 60's)

But when they got home this is what was waiting for them. Pumpkin cupcakes! Thanks Beck for the awesome recipe last week. They were delicious.

Wordless Wednesday - Mommy's Flowers

2007-09-26T01:41:00.000-05:00

I Feel Like I'm Barely Hanging On

2007-09-25T08:14:00.000-05:00

I've always thought of things this way. I stay at home all day. My hubby works 9-10 hour days. I wasn't going to ask for help with the housework. I could do it all. Then I got pregnant with Carter and was so sick I thought I was going to die. My hubby was amazing. He cooked dinner, did the dishes, made sure the boys were bathed, and helped Monte with his homework. I think survival mode kicked in. Then when I was 4 months along the migraines and puking ended and things pretty much went back to normal. (of course he does all the manly stuff like yard work and taking out the trash)

I've never minded. Like I said, I can do it all. Well, I'm beginning to re-think this. We are a family of 5. I am 1 person. Everyone needs to start pulling their own weight. The boys have the usual pick up your things and put them away. (or throw it all in the doorway of your room if your Hunter) They also empty the garbage cans around the house and take the recycle out to the garage. I'm thinking they should do more? I don't want them to be little slaves though either.

Yesterday when hubby came home from work he went to get a water bottle out of the fridge. There weren't any. So I say, sorta snippy, apparently I'm the only one who knows how to re-fill a water bottle. (everyone likes to drink out of a water bottle so I refill them with the filtered water out of the fridge) Hubby says that would be a great chore for the boys to do every night. And you know what, he's right.

I don't know why I feel guilty when I start to fall behind. I can't just let a mess be a mess. I can't relax and play with Carter when there are dishes in the sink, and stuff laying all over the house. But lately I'm just feeling so overwhelmed. And it's more than housework. There is a lot going on right now. I'm stressed, which isn't like me either. I'm exhausted when I go to bed, yet toss and turn all night. I can't seem to get my act together. I can't get out of this funk. I'm afraid I'm taking it out on everyone.

Start Fresh

2007-09-21T21:01:00.000-05:00

After a long week, and was this one ever LONG, I love Friday nights. There is something about a long school/work week that just tires everyone out. They all go to bed early, and without any lunches to make, or backpacks to get ready, I can just relax. I don't even care about the dishes right now, and boy does that not sound like me.

I've been in a "mood" lately. A funk if you want to call it that. I know I haven't been fun or easy to live with, but I'm trying to get over it. And tomorrow is a new day. A busy one, but new all the same. And praise God for that.

Today I Just Need To Laugh

2007-09-19T08:18:00.000-05:00

And if you'd been in my house the past week you'd understand why. A friend sent this e-mail to me last night and it made me laugh. Something I haven't done much lately.

Gonna Be A Bear

In this life I'm a woman. In my next life I'd like to come back as a bear. When you're a bear, you get to hibernate. You do nothing but sleep for 6 months. I could deal with that.

Before you hibernate you're supposed to eat yourself stupid. I could deal with that too.

When you're a girl bear, you birth your children (who are the size of walnuts) while you're sleeping and wake to partially grown cute, cuddly cubs. I could definitely deal with that.

If your a mama bear, everyone knows you mean business. You swat anyone who bothers your cubs. I could deal with that.

If you're a bear, your mate EXPECTS you to wake up growling. He EXPECTS that you will have hairy legs and excess body fat.

Yup, gonna be a bear.

Saturday Soccer, Sickness, and Sunshine

2007-09-15T14:01:00.000-05:00

The thing about having a baby once your other children are older, is that baby goes with you everywhere. And when baby is sick, and his brother has a soccer game, and daddy has to work, baby must go along. Sick baby, out in the cold wind on a soccer field, makes for a very unhappy morning.

But he is sleeping now, and I'm praying this fever goes away soon. I have to admit though that all the snuggles and nursing that has been going on isn't really all that bad! His brothers are out enjoying the sun that has now decided to come out. I think I'll go make dinner for later, or do some laundry, my favorite! Or maybe sit outside and watch the 2 other ones just be boys.

It's All About The Bugs

2007-09-13T08:21:00.000-05:00

The thing about bee stings is that after they stop hurting, they itch. BAD. And for awhile too. I haven't been stung since I was like 6 years old, so I guess I forgot this. And no, I didn't get stung Saturday, but I did on Labor Day. Saturday they were just swarming my coffee and Carter's banana. One even landed on his cheek. So I chucked my coffee and the banana, and he ate Cheerios. Much less tasty for the bees.

And what is this bug? I found it on the pool when the boys were at school. And Hunter being the animal/bug lover that he is I caught it for him. Even you non-bug lovers out there have to admit he is a cutie!

I'm Honored

2007-09-12T08:04:00.000-05:00

In The Fast Lane has given me my very first blogging award. The Nice Matters Award. Thank You! She is someone who I have just recently "met", and have come to enjoy her blog. We also found we have something in common.....

Now I am supposed to pass the award on to two more bloggers.

Jennifer from My 3 Sons...And A Little China Girl. I have just recently "met" her too, and she also has 3 boys. I think if they were to meet my boys they would all be the best of friends. Playing baseball and football, and going hunting.

And Sheryl from Peanut Butter And Jelly Boats. I have had the pleasure of meeting her in person, and she is just one of the kindest people you will ever meet. Not to mention that she is pregnant with her 4th baby and is still taking the time to visit and comment on everyone's blogs.

Note To Self....

2007-09-09T14:03:00.000-05:00

If you do not want to get stung by a bee twice in one week, DO NOT bring your coffee, or a banana for the baby to eat, to a bee-infested soccer field on Saturday mornings.

Also, Steph is having another contest. I'd love to win a Rockin' Baby Sling.

They Are All So Different

2007-09-07T23:12:00.000-05:00

Wednesday was back to school night at the boys school. I had already met their teachers, but I was really looking forward to going. The boys couldn't wait to show off their classrooms, their desks, and the cool things they had made for us parents.

Monte is my quiet one. A people pleaser. He would give up his favorite toy if he thought it would make you happy. He's more laid back, more go with the flow. He always hangs back a bit in a crowd, and said hello to his teacher once he told Monte hello.

Hunter on the other hand walks into the room as if he owns it. Hello Mrs. Teacher, he announced as we walked in. Hello Mr. Principle as we walked into the cafeteria for refreshments. He is bold, he is confident. He knows who he is, and doesn't care what others think.

I've always loved the differences between them. And even now in Carter I can see how he is like them in some ways, but in others I'm treading on a whole new territory.

The Tooth Fairy Is Coming Tonight

2007-09-06T22:16:00.000-05:00

I'm SO Tired

2007-09-06T08:22:00.000-05:00

Me and blogger have been fighting. I don't really know what it's problem is, but if this post goes all wacky, I'm quiting.

After a very busy, very fun Labor Day weekend, full of BBQ's, museums, trains, and the beach, I'm still playing catch up. The laundry had babies, and the dishes just won't go away. To top it off the cupboards were bare, so me and Carter went yesterday morning to run errands. I returned home to find a HUGE hole in my front yard and no phone. Again. The water company dug to tie in the new houses across the street and cut the phone line. Gotta love new construction.

And here is a random fact about me. I LOVE to do laundry. Weird, I know. But I really do enjoy it. And unless I'm on "vacation" I do laundry every day. I can't stand for it to pile up. Just don't use any of my bathrooms this week....

Priorities *Updated

2007-08-30T09:08:00.000-05:00

Today I will clean this desk. It has turned into a catch all for every member of this family. Even the baby will put toys and sippy cups on it. Should I be embarrassed by this picture?

But first, I must get out of this house. I haven't left in days. Except for our daily walks around the neighborhood. I need to go somewhere. So the mall it is for a few hours. And by need to go somewhere, I don't mean the grocery store.

*UPDATED
We went to the mall, got the most adorable pictures taken. I won't get them back for a couple weeks, but think Carter in his football jersey with a football helmet! We shopped, only now I realize I didn't buy myself anything. Well, unless you count lunch. And a yummy Starbucks of course.

As planned I cleaned off the desk. It's amazing how cleaning something makes me feel so good. Or maybe it was the shopping now that I think about it....

Wordless Wednesday - My Mother's Day Flower

2007-08-29T01:03:00.000-05:00

Before

After

Good Times With Friends

2007-08-28T08:25:00.000-05:00

Sunday afternoon I got to escape for a few hours in the afternoon to see a movie with a friend and her Mom. It was a cute movie, but it was great to get out. I can't remember the last movie I saw in the theater that wasn't for kids. Not that I don't like taking the boys, because I do, but I forgot how nice it is to sit with adults, and watch something without someone narrating the movie for you in your ear. So thank you ladies for a wonderful afternoon. I'm going to have to do that more often.

On the way to my escape I dropped Hunter off at his friends house down the street, where he had a WONDERFUL time. They have a HUGE, gorgeous yard with 2 apple trees. Hunter was in heaven. He's even asked me a few times since we moved if we could have an apple tree like at our old house. His friends Mom let the boys pick apples, as many as they wanted. Hunter came home with 27! He said he ate 2 there as well. They might not be pretty, but boy are they crunchy and DELICIOUS!!

We're Just Going With The Flow

2007-08-26T00:57:00.000-05:00

So I guess Hunter is staying in his class. I never got that call on Friday saying he was one of the kids pulled. Although I jumped every time the phone rang. I had decided I really didn't care either way. He really likes his teacher, but I found out Thursday that the new teacher is young and just graduated a few years ago, not some crabby old lady that has been teaching for too many years. He came home Friday and said they got to meet the new teacher and he wouldn't mind moving. I told him he probably wasn't since I never got a phone call. Well that's fine by him too. He's so easy to please.

Saturday morning was supposed to be his first soccer game. In the morning it was down pouring, and that mixed with all the rain we've had made for a VERY wet soccer field. So they canceled the games. When Hunter got up I told him his coach called and since it was raining cats and dogs out they canceled all the games.

Hunter - It's raining, and there's cats and dogs?

I hope every mother gets a "Hunter".

My Money Saving Tip

2007-08-24T09:37:00.000-05:00

Who needs a gate when the baby is scared of the vacuum!?!

Day #2

2007-08-23T08:36:00.000-05:00

Last year it was so hard for me to let Monte stand out at the bus stop alone even though I could see him. This year it's better since Hunter is there too. I don't know what I'll do once there is a house on the corner and I can't see them anymore from my deck.

Monte declared after the first day that Mr. Guy Teacher is his favorite teacher. EVER. He is SOOOO cool Mom. Mr. Guy Teacher is 2 years younger than me, and played football with the boys at recess. He also loves racing and Monte wore a race car shirt yesterday. And yes, Monte did that on purpose. What a little brown nose he is!!

Hunter loved his teacher and was happy to find he is the only Hunter in his class this year. Last year there was another and he's happy not to have a letter after his name anymore. But he did come home with a note saying that because there is SO many first graders they are adding another class so there aren't 30 kids in each class. I agree that's too many, but we met his teacher, we like her, there are kids in his class he is friends with. No one wants to change now. We are just praying it all works out for the best.

Already?

2007-08-22T10:02:00.000-05:00

Today was the first day back to school. The summer has just flown by, like always, and so here we go again. What you don't realize when you have small children, is just how much faster they grow once the school days start.

Monte is in 4th grade this year. Holy Moly! Only 2 years til middle school. He has a guy teacher, man teacher? this year. The only one in our elementary school, and boy is Monte excited. I've seen him around school and met him this morning. He seems very nice and told me I was welcome in his classroom at anytime for any reason. I like that. Ever walked into your child's classroom and felt like you don't belong? Monte's second grade year was like that. Not that it stopped me from going every chance I got.

Hunter is in 1st grade. And boy am I having a hard time with this one. Even though Carter is my "baby", Hunter was the baby for 5 1/2 years and I still really think of him that way. This is the first time he's gone all day, and it just seems so long. He was very nervous this morning which is not like Hunter at all. But once we got there and he found out a really good friend was in his class I think he felt better. Me and this friends mom stood there for a long time. Finally I told her we should either go or pull up a chair.

I know they will be fine. They will come home full of wonderful stories to tell, both talking over the other as we walk home from the bus stop. And I will get used to them being gone all day. Like it or not.

Hold The Phone

2007-08-20T23:14:00.000-05:00

Our house is new construction and we were the 4th house to go in, so there are a lot of empty lots still. Over the summer, and with the help of a lot of rain, the weeds had grown so tall you couldn't see over the top of a car. You couldn't see if someone was coming from the other direction. And the thing that really worried me, you couldn't see if there were boys on bicycles. Not to mention the workers, and some neighbors who don't have kids of their own, aren't looking out for children and drive like crazy people around here.

So, I called the builder and told him I was really concerned about the safety of my boys. And not only them playing, but with school starting they were going to have to walk to the bus stop. The weeds were so tall I couldn't see them from my 2nd story deck, and I knew a car wasn't going to see them either. He assured me that by the time school started he would have it taken care of.

Imagine my excitement when Saturday morning there was our builder on a tractor mowing the weeds. Me and all the boys sat on the deck and watched until he got too far over and we couldn't see.

That excitement didn't last long. An hour or so later my next door neighbor came and asked if we had phone. Her husband heard the mower hit something and now there is no phone. And hmm, now that you mention it, there is no builder is sight either.

It took until today to get someone out to fix it. 6 hours later it was confirmed.

phone guy - I'm sorry it took so long to fix, but someone mowed over the phone box, cut all the wires, and drug them across the field. You ladies wouldn't happen to know who did the mowing would you?

Me and neighbor - Oh, um, your going to have to have to call Mr. Builder.

My husband said it's a good thing then that he wasn't out there. He would have given the guy a name and number.

And truthfully it didn't bother me at all not having a phone. I have a cell phone. But no internet for over 48 hours? Now that's a different story.

Vacations Rock

2007-08-17T10:44:00.000-05:00

Last week my hubby took the week off work and we had a vacation at home. It was FANTASTIC. Not only did the boys LOVE having him here all week, but SO.DID.I. We tried to do something fun everyday. The water park, the movies, twice, mini golf and go-carts, a small amusement park, and one day Dad took them to the shooting range. We were going to go to the Zoo one day, but 90 degree temps changed all our minds.

And of course we spent a lot of time just hanging out at our pool. It really doesn't get any better than that. But the big news of the week is I left Carter for 10 1/2 hours from 1:30pm to midnight when we took the boys to the amusement park. . I have never left him that long, and have only left him one other time with someone other then my hubby.

It was a hard decision to make. Not only have I never left him like that, but he is still nursing several times a day. But an hour before we were to leave I started thinking taking him wasn't such a great idea. It was 90 degrees outside, I knew he would be miserable. But to stay home and let my hubby take them didn't sit too well with me either. Hunter is still only 6 and really wanted me to be there to ride with him. Something I couldn't do whether I stayed home or took Carter. I was totally torn between two children who needed me. So in a moment of weakness I let hubby call his mom and sister.

My SIL came right over and before I had a chance to change my mind, we were off. The WHOLE way there I was regretting my decision. How could I leave my baby? What if he cried the whole time? What if he NEEDED me? But I called. A LOT. And Carter has always LOVED my SIL. She is 16 and has always been great with all 3 of my boys. Even when Monte was born and she was only 6 years old.

When we got there I knew I'd made the right decision. Not only was it HOT, but Hunter refused to ride anything with anyone but me. And we had a BLAST. At 8:00 my in-laws came over to finish the babysitting so my SIL could go to the movies with friends, (she is 16 and all) plus they wanted to see Carter too.

He did fine. He was happy. He played. He ate. He drank water from his sippy cup. And he went to bed at 10:00. ON HIS OWN. IN HIS CRIB!! WHAAAT??? And he slept there ALL night!

I thought he didn't need me. Until morning when he started nursing every hour to make up for lost time. My boobs thanked him for it too!

Wordless Wednesday - Weeeee!!!

2007-08-15T01:02:00.000-05:00

Think Before You Speak

2007-08-12T02:23:00.000-05:00

Sometimes I wonder what I must look like as a mom of 3 boys. It's my life, a life that I love, but from the comments I get sometimes you'd think 3 boys is a punishment. Oh your KIDDING. I don't know how you DO it. And I'm good at not letting the things people say bother me because unless you have all boys, you can't understand just how wonderful it is.

Last night we went out to dinner to a small Mexican restaurant. Our meal was over and Carter was DONE. He wanted down, so I told Monte I'd take him outside while he got the bill and paid. We were almost to our car when the hostess came running out after us. We had left something on the table. An older couple was also walking to their car and the husband said to Monte, "are you sure you didn't forget a kid in there?" Okay, now was he joking, or truly annoyed because we brought our fussy baby to dinner? Monte must have thought he was joking because he joked right back. "no, we have them all but 2 are for sale." We laughed, hee hee, even the boys, but then the wife says, "well do you have any girls? We'd take a girl." What? We didn't even respond. Just got in our car and drove away.

The Green Eyed Monster Has Come For A Visit

2007-08-07T08:48:00.000-05:00

Carter has hit THAT age. You know the one. The everything is MINE age. Of course he wants everything he sees, and isn't above yelling and screeching to get his point across. But he can usually be easily persuaded to just "let it go" and move on to something else.

The other day a friend of mine was babysitting her 15 month old niece and brought her over for a little bit. Carter just didn't know what to do with this other little person in his house, touching his toys. So he cried. A LOT. And at first I thought, well he doesn't know her, and here she is taking his toys out of his hand, I'd cry too. But then I noticed he was screaming if his brothers touched something. Yep. THAT age is here.

But the biggest is me. I'm his mommy, and no one, I repeat NO ONE is allowed to sit within touching distance of me. Monte is almost 10 and our cuddle times are getting fewer and fewer, but Hunter is 6 and still likes to snuggle. Wants to lay and watch TV, or get those morning hugs. Carter is having NONE of that. Complete not only with screaming, but smacking as well.

Oh yes, the toddler is coming out.

Wordless Wednesday - Cowabunga!!

2007-08-01T00:57:00.000-05:00

So How Long Do You Have Anyway?

2007-07-27T02:18:00.000-05:00

I was starting to feel bad because I still haven't gotten the thank you cards out from Carter's birthday. But then what comes in the mail? A thank you card from a party Monte went to a week before Carter's. I guess I'm not so late after all.

I'm Just Glad We're Okay

2007-07-26T08:26:00.000-05:00

Last night we had a horrible storm rip through our area. The thunder and lightning started around 11:30, but it wasn't until after 12:30 that I saw some rain. I went to bed only to be woken up at 2:30, rain coming down like crazy, thunder, lightning every 2-3 seconds, no power. Me and hubby got up to watch the storm for a bit when we heard the winds howling. It so reminded me of this day.

I sat in the front room watching and waiting for the basketball hoop to land on my hubby's truck, or a stray piece of wood to go flying down the street from one of the construction sights. My hubby was looking out the back window and could do nothing as he watched our new patio furniture take flight, taking our brand new umbrella with it and smacking it down on the side of the deck. My heart stopped, and I just began to pray for our safety, for those that were driving at this hour.

Although it continued to storm for some time after that, winds like that don't last long, and my hubby went out to check the damages. (at 3am) Furniture, okay. Umbrella that I loved, that was brand new (2 months old) that cost a lot of money, snapped almost completely through.

Looking out the window this morning I can see my next door neighbors grill laying on it's side. It it also very new. I know these are just things, they can be replaced. But today I am a bit sad. Hind sight is 20/20, and if I could have a do over, I'd take the umbrella down. But I didn't know it was going to storm, and who takes their umbrella down every night anyway?!!

Wordless Wednesday - Dad's Company Picnic

2007-07-25T00:58:00.000-05:00

Last years face painting. He even has the same hat on!

There's No Place Like Home

2007-07-20T09:18:00.000-05:00

I got to escape yesterday for a few hours. My hubby gets off work at 2 in the afternoon, so I had an appointment to get my hair cut at 3:00. First one in 2 months. Woo Hoo! Then it was Starbucks with a friend, and a trip to the grocery store. By.My.Self.

Heavenly.

Back home. Boys are hungry. Baby wants to nurse and is VERY clingy. Hunter has a splinter in his foot he will NOT let us take out. Monte's goggles are broke and they need to be fixed, NOW. Swimming lessons in 35 minutes. And what is that sticky stuff on the counter? Syrup? From BREAKFAST?

Reality.

Addictions - Even The Kids Notice

2007-07-19T09:36:00.000-05:00

I wake up every morning dreaming about my coffee. It's literally the first thing I do when I get out of bed. Walk straight to the coffee pot and push the button. (I usually put the water and coffee grinds in the night before)

Yesterday morning as I was getting the big boys their breakfast I got Monte a bowl for his cereal. When I turned around I saw that I had already gotten him a bowl. I seriously didn't remember getting that first bowl.

He wasn't even joking when he said.....

Didn't you have your coffee this morning?

Wordless Wednesday - Rearranging The Kitchen

2007-07-18T00:29:00.000-05:00

Better Late Than Never

2007-07-16T22:56:00.000-05:00

This summer has been just so busy for us. With baseball, father's day, my hubby being out of town for a week, graduation open houses, Carter's birthday party got pushed to July. Not that he knows the difference. And it's really keeping with how we seem to do things around here. Monte was born on Thanksgiving, and Hunter's birthday is a week before Christmas, so we've never had their parties actually on their birthday weekend anyway.

We had his party at a favorite pizza restaurant of ours. (it was dark, and so my pictures are too) We got the back room all to ourselves, and I didn't have to cook or clean. Woo Hoo!! But a room full of people who seemed to know him, was a lot, and he clung to me. How I wanted to show off his new walk, but there was none of that either. Seeing as how he had to be set down and all.

And in keeping with tradition, like his brothers, he touched his little "baby cake" and started wining that his hands were messy. But he got over it fast.

Once we got home he got changed into his new "birthday pj's". Look at that face. Do you think the sugar affected him at all?!?!

The Family Table

2007-07-13T23:28:00.000-05:00

When me and Monte got married this table was given to us. After almost 10 years, 3 moves, and 3 kids, we still have it. I never thought we would have it this long. A new table is always something on our buy it someday list, but something always comes up. But did you notice something? (besides it's fake wood ugliness) It only has 4 chairs. And uh, baby makes 5!!!

It is VERY important to us to sit down as a family each night and eat together. There is no TV allowed and Hunter will be the first one to turn it off. Everyone has to only say nice words to each other and mind their manners. Okay, so we aren't the Brady Bunch, and that last sentence is a stretch, but I like to aim high.

I didn't know how much I was going to love having a breakfast bar until we moved in. I think it's one of the boys favorite part of this house. They love to eat breakfast and lunch here, watch me cook, or even join in and help. You might also find it covered with coloring books, school papers, and Hunter's arts and crafts, but that's okay too. I wouldn't have it any other way.

Head on over to Lori's and check out all the other tables in her photo tag.

Walking?

2007-07-12T09:19:00.000-05:00

Monte and Hunter both took their first steps a week before they turned one. When Carter was 11 months I told my hubby, Carter isn't going to walk by his first birthday. He had been cruising around furniture for a while, but was still so very wobbly when we would walk with him holding hands.

Not that it was a big deal. By your 3rd child you could really care less when they do what. And Carter has always been our "lazy" baby. What, with never rolling over and all!!! (at 9 1/2 months he finally figured he could flip over) But just because you know it doesn't matter, doesn't mean you don't want him to walk. And when we go outside I always think how much nicer it would be if he could. You know, instead of crawling in the dirt and eating grass and leaves.

Well last night he was walking around the living room like usual, and all of a sudden he just let go of the ottoman and walked toward the couch. He made it about 5 steps before he fell. I think it might of been from the screaming from me for his daddy to LOOK LOOK!!! He continued to "walk" for the next 30 minutes or so until he was ready for bed. But how exciting. I hope he practices some more today.

Wordless Wednesday - Am I In Trouble?

2007-07-11T00:02:00.000-05:00

Chug That Water

2007-07-10T00:38:00.000-05:00

We've been trying for awhile. We've tried different brands. But Carter could not figure out a sippy cup. All he would ever do was bite it. I guess it really wasn't that big of a deal, but geez, this baby will eat ANYTHING, and I'd like a glass of water after I eat enchiladas. So we kept at it. I'm not sure what the difference was, or what happened, but the other day he just DID it.

And as with everything, he did it with gusto!!!

Question..... *Updated

2007-07-09T00:04:00.000-05:00

Do you let your toddler stand up in the bathtub, or do you try to make them sit?

*updated. I know this must have been an issue with Monte and Hunter too, I must have blocked it out. Carter has just recently started taking a bath in the "big boy tub", and after 5 minutes wants to stand up. And it isn't even the standing that bothers me, it's the slipping and hurting himself like so many of you said. I just get tired of telling him to sit down and putting him back on his bottom every 3 seconds. So I get him out.

And totally not related, but Carter keeps pinching the back of my arm when he nurses. OUCH!!!

I Wish All Days Could All Be Like This

2007-07-07T00:05:00.000-05:00

Since I seem to be talking about Carter sleeping lately, I thought I'd share a picture of him doing just that.

He is on that cusp of going from two naps to one. The problem is his first one will be 3 hours, but after a few hours he is tired again, and at 6pm he is so tired he wants a nap. WAY too late for that. So he's crabby for a couple hours.

In an attempt to make him wait longer for that "first" nap, we've gone in the pool around 11:30 the last couple days. (old nap time) He's SO happy for about an hour, then we get out and dry off, have a snack, and he's almost too tired to nurse. Almost.

The result of this is.....

A 4 HOUR NAP!! Both days. Do you know how much blogging, er um, housework you can get done in that amount of time?!!

I'm not counting on this to last though. If nothing else this child in VERY inconsistent. But it would be nice.

2007-07-06T16:39:00.000-05:00

Steph is having another contest. This time it is for a podonbutai from All Natural Mommies. This carrier looks so cool. I'd love to give it a try.

What A Great Day

2007-07-05T10:44:00.000-05:00

So I think I made the right decision to not take Carter to the parade. It started at 11 and at 11:15 he was in his bed sound asleep. And for anyone who knows Carter, you know that home is the only place he will sleep. My older 2 were the same way, and oh how I wanted Carter to be different. To be one of those babies that would snuggle into me no matter the place and pass out. But since that did not happen, it's better just to stay home around nap time. Which can change from day to day. He likes to keep me on my toes.

But Dad took Monte and Hunter and Nana and Aunt Rachel met them there. Papa was out of town this year. Everyone came back all smiles and HUNGRY! Good thing I had that extra time to get the food going.

After a great afternoon with family and friends, food, and lots of swimming, it was time for fireworks. Now I must admit I was a little worried how Carter would do, but we LOVE fireworks around here and I didn't want to miss them. My MIL offered to take my older 2 early and go get seats. They somehow got a hamburger, popcorn, cotton candy, and pop too!!! So me and hubby showed up with Carter 45 minutes before they started. Awesome!!!

Carter did good. I can't say that he liked them, but he didn't cry either. He layed his head on my chest and I covered his other ear with my hand and he watched the entire show. Which was fantastic this year. I'd like to see fireworks again just so I can have 35 minutes of uninterrupted snuggle time.

So today is recoup day. I need to go to the grocery store, but I'm going to take Carter in the pool and them put him down for a nap. The store will be there tomorrow......

Happy 4th Of July

2007-07-04T00:54:00.000-05:00

This is one of my favorite 4th of July pictures. (ignore the fuzziness. Before digital) Hunter was 2 at the time, 4 years ago, and we were at the parade. The sirens were so loud he covered his own ears. And to this day he still doesn't like loud noises. I'm not sure if I'm taking Carter this year. It's supposed to be hot and humid, and he really doesn't like to sit AT ALL, so I don't know. Dad just might take the older boys. But we WILL see fireworks. Plus a cookout and lots of swimming in our new pool will make for a fantastic day!

And after 8 days of being gone, my hubby came home early Saturday morning. I guess that's just where I've been. Too tired after being mommy and daddy all day to put 2 coherent sentences together. We all missed him like crazy, but were SO busy that the week really did fly by.

Carter got up Saturday morning, nursed, and rolled over to see daddy. Boy was he surprised. And a little taken back. I'm not sure he even recognized daddy at first. I woke daddy up and Carter played shy for a bit. Laid his head on my chest, would smile and turn his head. After 5 minutes daddy had enough of the games. He grabbed Carter and tickled his chubby feet and sweet baby belly. I love the deep laughs that produces. It's so good to have daddy back.....

First Taste Of Ice Cream

2007-06-24T21:06:00.000-05:00

Hmm. What is this stuff?

Oh, give me more!

Yeah, this stuff rocks!

What do you mean it's all gone?

One Year

2007-06-22T18:04:00.000-05:00

The first birthday is always bittersweet. I miss that precious little newborn that he was, but look forward to all the many milestones I know that he will meet. He no longer nurses peacefully in my arms, but would rather do so standing on his head and feet with his butt up in the air. It only makes me cherish more the "down" nursing times. As rare as they have become.

Sometimes I miss the sleepy baby in my arms where ever we were, that precious little newborn. But I wouldn't trade it for the laughing, the clapping, the waving, those sweet slobbery baby kisses, the way he shakes his head "no" at any question you ask him, the silly little toddler that he is quickly becoming.

He is not walking yet like his brothers were, has not said a handful of word like Hunter had, but by your 3rd child you no longer care when they hit these milestones and don't compare them to other babies.

But I love that he has a mouthful of teeth (his brothers got theirs late) and will eat anything I give him. He might not open for seconds or thirds, but he has not spit anything back at me either.

He seems to be slowing down a bit. He was 24lbs. and 31 in. Only 2 pounds since January. But that's good. I don't mind him getting bigger, but I also want him to be my baby for as long as possible.

A Contest

2007-06-22T17:36:00.000-05:00

Stephanie is at it again. Another contest. This time it is for this from Stroller Mama. I think even if I don't win I might have to buy one. My MIL just won a 42in. plasma TV. Maybe the luck will run in the family!!! You can try yours too.

Wordless Wednesday - One Year Ago

2007-06-20T00:02:00.000-05:00

Happy Birthday Carter

2007-06-19T00:46:00.000-05:00

Today my baby is one. It's amazing how fast the time has gone. 365 days ago Carter was born one week early weighing 9lb. 5 oz. and was 22 in. long. I just can't believe how fast it's gone. I blame it on how much busier we are now than when his brothers where babies. It has really made me cherish those precious moments we have. To not sweat the small stuff and really enjoy the moment.

Carter, from the moment they layed you in my arms you fit into our family like you'd been there forever. Our surprise baby. I couldn't imagine having another baby, and now I can't imagine not. I've been horrible about writing in your baby book, and have just a fraction of the home videos that we have of your brothers, but the love for you is just the same.

Thank you for making me a mommy again!

It's A Guy Thing

2007-06-17T22:36:00.000-05:00

Last weekend my hubby took the older boys camping. This backpack was just for fun before they left. A friend of my father-in-law owns a farm with a really nice pond on it. My hubby has access to fish/camp anytime he wants. He's been taking Monte and Hunter there since they were little. But this was the first time they camped there.

I stayed home with Carter. Okay, actually we went shopping, but I don't like to camp. And so I didn't mind being "left out" of this overnighter. And I think even the boys liked that I stayed home. That they got Dad all to themselves.

They set up camp

saw a gorgeous sunset

snuggled in with favorite "friends" from home

did LOTS of fishing

and cooked those fish for breakfast!!

Me and Carter had a good time. It seemed very quiet in the house. Sometimes too quiet. But the one on one time alone with the baby was a good thing too.

A Contest And A Meme

2007-06-14T08:17:00.000-05:00

Stephanie over at Adventures In Babywearing is having another awesome contest. I REALLY want to win this one. It is her after all that got me into wearing Carter in the first place. This contest is for a $75 gift certificate to MamaKanga. I would love to be able to buy this. If you haven't already, head on over and enter yourself.

Stephanie also tagged me for a meme.

What was I doing 10 years ago?
1. Working at a watch store in our mall
2. I got married
3. Was pregnant with my oldest
4. Moved out of my mom's house
5. Learning how to cook for my new husband

Five Snacks I Enjoy:
1. popcorn
2. almonds
3. Kashi peanut butter granola bars
4. chips and salsa
5. dry cereal

Five Songs That I Know All The Lyrics To:
I'm skipping this one. Sorry. I can never remember song titles or artists. I know, I'm lame.

Five Things I Would Do If I Were a Millionaire:
1. Buy my husband the truck of his dreams.
2. Pay off my house
3. Hire a maid
4. Pay for not just my kids to go to collage, but my niece and nephew and all my friends kids too
5. Give to church and charities

Five bad habits:
1. staying up too late
2. procrastinating
3. interrupting people when they are speaking
4. snapping my gum
5. letting clean laundry sit too long

Five Things I Like To Do:
1. read
2. go for bike rides with my family
3. cook and bake
4. go shopping
5. go for walks

Five Things I Would Never Wear Again:
1. tight rolled jeans
2. high top tennis shoes
3. acid washed jeans
4. high waisted pants
5. shoulder pads

Five Favorite Toys:
1. my little pony
2. cabbage patch dolls
3. strawberry shortcake
4. playing teacher with my sister
5. matchbox cars

Five People I Tag:
1. Lori at Glass Half Full
2. Happi at The Berger Buzz
3. Tracey at Just Another Mommy Blog
4. Randi at My Moments...As Told By Me
5. Ashlee at Mamas Nest

Wordless Wednesday - Camping With Dad

2007-06-13T07:20:00.000-05:00

Anyone Want To Swim?

2007-06-12T08:49:00.000-05:00

Look what landed in my back yard Saturday. WOO HOO!!! The boys are SO excited. Too bad we had to drain it. Drain it you say? Oh yes. Apparently when they put the shop vac between the wall and the liner to keep all the wrinkles out, the sand underneath wasn't wet enough and it sucked up a ton of sand. So the right side of the pool was wavy on the bottom. But no worries. They fixed it this morning, and it is filling up. They are even going to pay us for the water that was wasted. Tomorrow they will come back to hook up the filter and then we can swim. Or rather the boys can swim. I don't swim in hose water. It needs to warm up a bit for baby and I.

This turned out to be an ordeal. The pool was supposed to go in Thursday. It was way to windy so they dug the hole and came back Friday. Still too windy. So Saturday it was. Monday was the draining of the pool, today I think (I pray) all is fixed, and tomorrow is the filter. I've seen these guys for five mornings now. It will be six tomorrow. I'm thinking at this point I should be cooking them breakfast and making coffee!!

Wordless Wednesday - So Big

2007-06-06T00:23:00.000-05:00

It Makes No Sense

2007-06-01T23:54:00.000-05:00

Carter is sick. Again. Runny nose, cough. Some things never change. And to be honest, he picked a horrible time. Sunday is my hubby's 30th birthday and we are having a barbecue at our house. (rain or shine) Trying to shop, cook, and clean, plus baseball, has proven to be quite difficult with Crabby Carter in tow.

Now I'm not quick to spoon out the cold medicine, but for the sake of his sleep, and mine, I gave him some. Let me just say that he hasn't eaten ANYTHING for 2 days. Even his beloved Cheerios have all been thrown back at me. Not that it's a big deal. He's still nursing great, but when I gave him the medicine, he took it like a champ. And then opened his mouth up for more. And I think I heard a little Mmmm escape. Seriously?

So I thought I'd try an all time favorite. Bananas. Nope. You'd think I was feeding him poison. Really? Medicine good. Bananas bad?

And did anyone notice what humidity does to his hair? Haha!!!

And just because I'm in the running for mother of the year......it's midnight and I'm washing Hunter's baseball uniform because I had all day to do it and forgot.

Tons Of Fish

2007-05-31T11:46:00.000-05:00

To answer a few comments, yes he ate fish, but who knows if it was this one. Look at all these!! Now I don't fish, but my husband and boys do. Right now Hunter is really into it. He got up at 6:15 to go and never complained. Lil Monte says he likes to hunt with his Dad better. Which sorta explains why he isn't in this picture. He also had an invitation to sleep over at a friends house. I guess he is now at that age where friends trump family. I'll pretend it's not like a knife to the gut.